Even for women who are divorced from gay husbands, the stigma is real. More than 40 men showed up at the first meeting. I am really fortunate that i have good friends who are there for me, and have a wonderful career. Critics treat you as if you have taken one of two paths: either you’ve relinquished your bisexual identity, and so seem to have abandoned queer struggle to take refuge in the safe familiarity of the patriarchy, or you’ve kept it and are seen as incapable of dealing with the structures of state-sanctioned monogamy. The women partners of bisexual men service provides counselling and support groups for women partners of same sex attracted men. Some couples stay married and some don’t. Their love and affection for you will not change, and they might want a family and children as much as you want them.
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Your letter corroborates my own observations about male bisexuality. To friends and family, they were a perfect american family.